Guides for wedding officiants

The craft of writing and performing a ceremony, and the business of getting paid for it. Free to read.

Writing & craft

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How to write a wedding ceremony script

A working officiant’s method for writing a wedding ceremony script: the interview, the structure, the draft, and the read-aloud pass that catches everything.

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Wedding ceremony outline: the 9 blocks

The nine building blocks of a wedding ceremony, in order, with what each one is for and how long it runs: a reusable outline you can adapt to any couple.

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The couple interview: 25 questions pros ask

The questions experienced officiants ask before writing a ceremony: how a couple met, what they promise, and the small true details that make a script theirs.

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How to write a eulogy

A celebrant’s method for writing a eulogy: gathering the material, the structure that holds, how long it should run, the hard parts, and the rehearsal.

The business of officiating

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How much do wedding officiants charge?

What wedding officiants charge in 2026: typical fees by ceremony type, what moves the number, and how to set a rate that pays you for the real hours.

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The officiant contract: clauses the pros use

The clauses experienced officiants put in every agreement — scope, fees, deposits, cancellations, travel, and backups — so a booking never turns into a dispute.